MAY

PAINTED FROM MAY-MORY (or “Tuxedo Junction”)

 

This month was quiet, except for some exciting news from Cannes (which will be revealed in a later SCENE); however, it did mark my 15th anniversary with Bruce (since our first date in Chicago on May 10, 1986)...So, if you'll permit me to revel in some "may-mories"...Let's step into the WAY BACK MACHINE and set it for:

MARCH-APRIL 1986: I'm a senior at Northwestern University in Evanston, IL, and I've just gotten an internship at WMAQ-TV (NBC) Is that cool, or what!?  On the first day, I notice a 26-year-old producer named Bruce Ryan or Reinz or Rains...let's just call him "Bruce R."  Here, the producer in the cube next to mine catches me day-dreaming about Bruce! I must get back to work and be more subtle or I'll never be the next Deborah Norville!

MAY 10: I'm so excited! After boring holes into Bruce R. with my eyes for almost two months, he's asked me out!! Here, I pose before the date with my roommate Mary Arndtsen.

JUNE 13: Tonight's my 5th date with Bruce Rheins! He's picked me up in a limo at my sorority house to go to the Emmys

Later that night...Oh-my-god! He's won two for covering the Beirut hostage crisis with Paul Hogan and for the feature story "Vietnam: The Unfinished War". I'll never forget this night! It's like the best prom ever!!

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Whew! I mean, "Whew." I certainly was an energetic little senior, wasn't I? Back to the present for a moment here...

Speaking of proms, Conrad Cimarra, my great friend, web designer and actor summa cum laude, hosted one at his loft on May 19th. The theme was, "Tonight is the previous night we'll regret tomorrow." And despite my bright pictures, the real lighting situation was a disco ball, strobe, red bulbs and candles.  Several folks adhered to the suggested dress code. Prom king and queen had to be cutie-pie Amanda Duarte and her "intellectual dreamboat" Ryan. Prom princess was obviously Vasna Bilavarn. Also on prom court was Mary Ellen Taylor. Of course, we couldn't keep Newton "burnout" Kaneshiro from crashing the party. And, I came as "Carmencita, the Argentinian exchange student". (Like the rose from our garden and my 'mole'? Gracias, Max Factor.) There were some prom shenanigans as well. Check out Michael Tolfo and Dan-the-Man "McCool-McCamel" McCannell. Kids don't try this at home! These folks are professionals.

And now, just for giggles...Let's set the WAY BACK MACHINE for:

May 28th, 1982: It's the night of my senior prom!!! Fortunately, I'm having an excellent hair day!!! I just can't move my head!! But, that's okay!! My date is such a fox!! (No, he's not my brother! Really! I swear! We are so NOT related! For sure.) I'm having a bitching pre-party at my house with my clique.  It's going to be wicked! They are raucous!

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Okay. Enough of that. Have you ever seen such a bunch of squares assembled in one living room? ;-) Are there still tea-totalling, 17-year-old virgins who drive to their own proms (sans limo) and are in at a 'reasonable' hour in this age of the internet? Probably not, but in a strange way, I wish there were. It's official. Writing a wistful, nostalgic sentence like that means only one thing: I'M OLD. (But I can still think in exclamation points, at least.)

Moment of Zen, May 18th, 2001: This dragonfly was born on the hood of my Pontiac. It might make sense if I drove a Firebird, but I don't.

 

FADE TO JUNE...

 

 

© 2001Dawn Westlake